1 Man On Earth

A baby on the way? WOW! Nothing really surprises me these days. I keep saying that "everyone cheats" and people always argue against my opinion. They might not cheat on every relationship all the time but they have at least once in their lifetime. If they say that haven't they lying... not that their aren't people with good morals but they are RARE.

I've cheated. I admit it. It was a learning experience but now if I feel the need to cheat then I just tell my partner how I am feeling. Whatever happens after that happens but at least I kept it honest and real!

This whole Tiger thing comes as a surprise to some because I think most of America saw Tiger as an All American picture of a dedicated hard working athlete with a good family raising. But when you have millions (almost billions) then you might feel that the world is at your feet. But money does NOT determine whether someone cheats it just might make it a little easier to cheat. Something was obviously lacking in their marriage to make him feel he needed to cheat. It's not because his wife is ugly or she isn't a good mother... but maybe she wasn't "there" for her husband.

WOMEN: I am taking this opportunity to evaluate the situation from a wives perspective. What made my husband cheat? I would check myself... do I make myself emotionally, physically & emotionally available to my man?
Have we spent time one on one together?
Am I connected to my husband? Does he feel connected to me?

I know we can not control our men but we do need to step up as women and be responsible for our roles. If he takes us for granted then at least we did our part with no regrets. I have seen women step up after the divorce and it always makes me wonder why they didn't do those things during the marriage?

I do wish for this family to stay together as I want all marriages to stay united even after 8 women... there must be healing & forgiveness!! Now I know some of you are saying YEAH RIGHT!! But if we always run when there is a storm or deception we will never grow as people or a society and you see where that has us?
Look at the amount of children being raised by single parent families or even by grandparents? Look at our men and women turning to a bi-sexual or gay lifestyle becuase they have been hurt by the oppisite sex?

We need to find a solid ground. We need to return to structure and rules of engagement... we need MORALS!